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PODCAST: On the Marie Curie Couch with Dustin Lance Black

12 Nov 2019

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By Marie Curie, Marie Curie

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PODCAST: On the Marie Curie Couch with Dustin Lance Black
In the latest episode of On the Marie Curie Couch, bereavement expert Jason Davidson meets Oscar-winner Dustin Lance Black.
Oscar-winning filmmaker, writer and activist Dustin Lance Black lives in London with his husband, British Olympic diver Tom Daley and their young son. In this episode of On the Marie Curie Couch, Lance talks about his mother, Roseanna, who died in 2014. Roseanna was the inspiration behind Lance’s recent memoir, Mama’s Boy.

It forces us to face and accept something that’s very difficult for many people about this beautiful thing called life, which is how ephemeral it is, how much we are all whispers, and that’s hard.
Dustin Lance Black

Facing mortality

Lance describes following his mum’s ambulance to hospital, and how his cab driver brought the situation into stark reality: “He looked up in the rearview mirror and said, ‘Whatever will be now, will be,’ and it was the first moment I ever considered that my mum was mortal.”

We are whispers

Lance is very familiar with the challenges of death and grief, having lost countless family members and friends in recent years. 
"It forces us to face and accept something that’s very difficult for many people about this beautiful thing called life, which is how ephemeral it is, how much we are all whispers, and that’s hard.”

Listen now

Tap the link near the top of this page to listen to Lance’s chat with Jason. Alternatively, listen to or download it via Acast, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. If you'd prefer, you can read a full transcript of the episode. Be sure to like and subscribe so you know when we’ve uploaded a new episode – there are more conversations coming soon.
Content note: discussion of death and grief with reference to themes/topics that might be triggering or upsetting.
Published: 12 Nov 2019
Updated: 22 Apr 2025
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